You have a headache. You take an Advil and the pain goes away.

The child screamed in the store for a candy bar. Dad gave them the candy bar. The child stopped screaming when dad gave her the candy. The next time she started screaming, dad gave her candy. Dad's behavior ....

Your neighbor is playing their music super loud. You pound on the wall and they turn down their music. You are more likely to do this in the future.

Your neighbor is playing their music super loud. You pound on the wall and they turn up their music even louder! You are less likely to pound on their wall to get them to turn it down in the future.

Your neighbor is playing their music super loud. You pound on the wall and instead of turning down the music, they come knocking on your door to "have words". You do not pound on the wall in the future....

You did not get your homework done for school because you were up all night gaming, and your mom gets a report from your teacher of your missing work. She makes you go to your room after dinner without screen time.

You do not miss any more assignments.

A child gets up and runs away from the class during carpet time. She's running around the room. You use a stern teacher voice, and she returns to the carpet. She does not do this in the future. Student behavior ....

A child gets up and runs away from the class during carpet time. She's running around the room. You use a stern teacher voice, the student stops running around and she returns to the carpet. You are more likely to use stern teacher voice in the future. Teacher behavior ....

A child gets up and runs away from the class during carpet time. She's running around the room. You use a stern teacher voice, and she laughs in your face. She continues running around the room, and she keeps doing it looking for your reaction. Student behavior ....

A child gets up and runs away from the class during carpet time. She's running around the room. You use a stern teacher voice, and she laughs in your face. She continues running around the room, and she keeps doing it looking for your reaction. You stop using a stern teacher voice. Teacher behavior ....